Confession and Repentance Part I
My morning didn’t start out well, but I’m determined to let God FINISH it well.
The past few days the “adventure” hasn’t been so fun but God is still in the details IF I look for him.
I know this because I went for a walk this morning early to clear my head and talk with God.
I still struggle with claustrophobia. It’s gotten a lot better, but under stress… I wake up feeling like there is no air in the room. I needed to breathe, so I left early with my mask around my neck planning to only put it on if my path crossed someone else’s. My conversation with God was going well until…
It started to rain.
I thought I’d keep walking.
I was listening to Mary Mary singing, “I Just Can’t Give Up Now” and figured God was giving me an object lesson on perseverance… until seconds later it started POURING raining. The last time that happened I kept walking. I got soaked….but God and I had a great time. I was smiling by the time I got home. No rain. No rainbows.
Anger started to well up… because for the past few days I’ve been angry at God.
My anger was so close to the surface that God used the rain to expose my thoughts:
GOD! WHY do you keep letting people hurt me?! I try really hard to be a good person and YOU keep letting people hurt me because of FREE WILL. People have THE RIGHT to do whatever they want EVEN if it hurts other people. WHAT about OTHER PEOPLE’S rights NOT to be hurt? What about MY rights not to be hurt?!
Now before you take offense at my tone with God… I remind you that God’s OMNISCIENT. He knows what I’m thinking before I do… so trying to hide my thoughts from God is ridiculous. He already knows them. Better to get them out in the open so we can deal with them together. Anger and fear are like cockroaches. If you don’t deal with them in the light… they will fester and multiply in the dark.
By the time I finally got home, I was calmer. I planned to attend church online but first I posted on Facebook. I needed to clear some “mental real-estate” or my mind would be too full to focus on what the pastor was saying. Here’s what I posted:
From the Annals of Facebook:
We are told in scripture to “put off” sin (Ephesians 4:22-24) and to “throw off things that hinder us,” (Hebrews 12:1-2). That’s what the past few days have been about for me. Most of my big giant GLARING sins no longer have the power to drive the bus. But it’s those sins attached to areas of deep wounding… where I feel justified in how I respond… that I was wrestling with.
THOSE are the sins it’s harder to let go of.
I found great comfort in reading Romans chapters 6 and 7 over the past three days because Paul was the first person to say that “the struggle is real.” Struggling with our sin nature is REAL. We need to face it not rebuke it. Jesus died for me so that my sin nature no longer has to dominate me.
Paul also went on to say that “there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” (Romans 8:1-2) Which means, that God not only saw me “fighting the good fight” (1 Timothy 6:12) with myself the past few days… but he didn’t condemn me for it. Jesus wants to walk me through my internal battle to the joy and peace that will come when I have his perspective on it. Paul says that I’m “more than a conqueror.” (Romans 8:31-37)
It is easier to think of strapping on “the full armor of God” (Ephesians 6:10-20) and waging “spiritual warfare” against Satan. But what if the enemy you are battling is yourself and your old sinful reactions that are deeply rooted in fear and trauma?
Fear is a God-given emotion.
Fear serves a purpose.
It is only when we let our fear become BIGGER than our God… that fear becomes an idol and needs to be toppled. Friday God revealed some pockets of fear that he wants to shine his light into. I responded in deep, irrational fear… but also some really real RATIONAL fear. Neither rational nor irrational fears surprise God.
Jesus wants to set me free from these fears. I’ve needed to sit with these feelings the past few days because I’m not the only person who feels this way. My fears are common to man (1 Corinthians 10:13). It’s my job to write about it in the middle of the storm and give testimony of what I see God doing. There are actually names for a lot of the things that I fear… which CONFIRMS that what I’m feeling and experiencing is are phenomenon common to man.
The bad news is that I’ve been struggling the past few days with fear and that has had a negative impact on my physical body. I’m in pain.
The GOOD NEWS?
1) Nothing can separate me from the love of God (Romans 8:38-39)
2) GOD is El Roi, the God Who Sees me, so I am not alone in my struggles
3) Jesus calls me an overcomer. (Revelation 12:11)
In the past, going to church after days like the last three would’ve been an impossibility. Too much external stimulation and I’d morph into my altered ego “Bipolar Girl.” But with church meeting online… I was able to attend the online service of Kaimuki Christian Church on Friday when I was really upset…and now I’m going to the 9:30 service at Wellsprings Covenant Church.
The storm that I’m in hasn’t subsided… yet…. but there is comfort knowing that God is in the eye of that storm and WILL calm the wind and the waves in his timing.
My job? Trust him.